Wow, I didn’t think it’d been this long since I’d updated the blog. I’m actually a bit shocked and appalled.

Or something…

Anyhoo, the one thing I was being MUM about in the posts just before I went silent for the last three weeks was that the lawyer had called with a court date. Apparently the *DDD* had not responded to his summons (three in total, I believe – I’ve lost count) therefore he was placed in default, meaning we could proceed without him. And we did. Now, do I leave ya’ll in suspense for the next hmmm..three weeks? Ok, I won’t. I’d love to, but I won’t. Evil only extends so far, and with this news, I can’t be evil.

In 21 days, or so..the divorce will be final, and I’ll be free. The girls, for that matter, will be free. Free from constant worry and free from abuse and assault. Why? I was granted sole custody, with visitation to be agreed upon. And since I won’t allow them to be put in harm’s way again, he can only see them under supervised visitation regulations. Not that he’ll care – I mean, come on. No phone calls even, for the last 4 1/2 months – including their birthdays AND Christmas.

Like I’ve said, he made his choice, and he’d rather have a hole-to-f**k, than his children.

So, now I can say, with all seriousness and intent – we’re free. I may not be cheap, but I’m FREE!